“ Thank you for the support you are offering me on my mothering journey through your coaching and recorded classes. My capacity for meeting myself with radical self-compassion (understanding how impossible the task of parenting in the nuclear family, domination structures that I’m in) is greatly enhanced. This, in turn, helps me repair breaks in trust with my kids with grace and ease. I am able to accept the limitations of my capacity and choose strategies to do the best I can to meet needs in the moment, mourning unmet needs.
There is such a difference in the quality of exchanges I have been having with my children since I started learning from you! My sons are inviting me into their lives. Even if we don’t spend too much time together, in the 5 minutes we are driving with each other, there is a new found flow!
You have brought the assumption of needs-based innocence more to the forefront of my consciousness. I was in so much pain in the last few years, seeing the gap between my NVC values and my application. But I am so much more in integrity and alignment with my values now, due to how I see you living and integrating NVC.